Friday, 29 March 2013

Elle's Happy Birthday !

                            What were you doing at 5:30 am the Friday before March break started? Our family was falling out of our beds and tumbling into the van for the 50 min drive to Crystal Palace in Moncton N.B. to celebrate Elle's 6th birthday with 10 of her cousins!!! Crazy????Probably ,but it was so much fun! Every year the Friday before March break from 6-9 a.m. the indoor amusement park in Moncton has a customer appreciation event which means all the rides are free and a free breakfast is included also. Well,  we were there with bells on!! My brother Josh and his family stayed the night before with us and we traveled together in the morning, and Terry and Jenny with their 6 girls met us there for a few hours of fun!!

                                    Ryan and Elin having lots of fun!!
                                       Emily and Charley were big enough to go around together this year without a parent.....they were so happy!!
                            Jenny and baby Cameron
                                         Kaleigh, Elin, and Eva waiting for their turn on the Merry Go Round
                               I thought Elin would be too scared to get on her own horse, but she wasn't!! She didn't even want me to hold on to her...Crazy kid!!
                                            Elle and the rush to find the perfect horse!!
 
                                                    Happy bespectacled Eva
                                                    The sad pirate and his too short princess!!
                                               After our few hours of thrills and stomach butterflies, we headed across the street for the par-tay!! There is a huge MacDonalds with a big playroom, and boy did we ever have ourselves a time! You would think that the kids would be all worn out from getting up so early,running their little legs off for a few hours going from one ride to another to want to play some more, but you would be wrong.  Here is Jenny and Andrea having a rest while the kiddos were off playing again!

                                            Elle wanted a snake cake...I improvised a little to be able to get it from our kitchen to MacDonalds, but she was happy enough with it.
                                                    Happy baby Cameron
                                               Thank goodness they didn't fill in the maximum !! Between our 3 families we had 15 kids (we Skalings brought an extra little guy from our church to the fun that day too)on the play equipment , and there were other families there eating breakfast as well.
                                     Elle opening her gifts
                               
                                           Cupcake fun
                                            The blessings of cousins!!
                                       
                                     Me desperately needing that caffeine to kick in!! 
                                                     


                                                  New toys! It was such a fun, crazy few hours, and we were so happy to have been able to get all together, and Elle thinks it is the best party a girl could have..really 14 friends/cousins going to an amusement park with you? That is quite a party!!....anyone up for it again next year? We plan to be there!!

Saturday, 23 March 2013

Going Home

                               After a great night of sleep (and lots of snuggling with Mommy!) Elin was one hungry girl!! She was so excited to see her breakfast tray arrive.

                                            She was in much better spirits and really  starting to feel like herself again
                              Uncle Terry, Aunt Jenny and Elin's 6 girl cousins gave her a very fun care package, which she was finally feeling good enough to get into after breakfast.
                                                    Dora stickers,..lots of love..get-better-soon notes..snacks and treats..She had so much fun looking through all of the loot.
                                                                      
                                                      After her wonderful Doctor came for his final visit, and gave us the a-o.k. to take our little one home, we started getting ready to go
                                                    Elin getting her special scarf on and helping me with my boots
                                   As we were pulling out of our parking spot, we noticed Ryan's good friend Jeff Woodcock pulling into the parking garage. He had come to visit us and see how we and Elin were doing. We were so happy to see a familiar face, and were glad we had not missed seeing him.

                                When we got to Jenny's house where the rest of our girlsie's were  happily staying we arrived in time for supper, and a fun get-to-gather for my birthday which was the next day. T.J., Sandra ,and their family came too.

         Elin loved her little cousin Tara. Notice Elin all climbed up on the table....she was supposed to be  mostly sedentary for a few more days, but do you think we could keep that turkey still?
                                    Lots of love and kisses for the baby.
                                        So finally that is behind us. We are so thankful for how the Lord took care of us, provided for us, and looked after Elin every moment of those 3 days. He is so good!!

Tuesday, 19 February 2013

Grateful to be Done a Long and Long Awaited Day

This is Ryan writing as Joanna and Elin get some rest .
  Here is how we started this big and eventful day. We had to wake up this sweet little thing at 6:00am, and drag her out into the cold February 19th morning to get to the hospital for 6:30am. We were thankful to be only a couple of blocks away at the Ronald MacDonald House. The uniqueness of the old architecture is matched by its atmosphere as up 17 families going through similar struggles share their lives and this living space.
 The  7 minute walk in the cold found us at the IWK full of mixed emotions and very much in-love with our Elin. She was pleased her  puppy was given a "necklace" to match her bracelet.
 Daddy was on book reading duty to help pass the time. She was given a new blanket by the staff. I think we have lost count of all the new "this and that's" she has received on this adventure. It is nice to see that even amidst the all the problems of this world there are many generous people who God uses to bring a little happiness to difficult times.
 Grammie Cameron gave Elin a little treasure she found shopping one day.
 This reaction is actually her shrinking away from the "scary snake".
 She warmed up a little...
 Then enough to get it on.
 "The scary" was actually "a happy" too I guess!
 The new books helped her pass the time even better...
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 Mommy and Elin enjoying some snuggle time in the last minutes before Elin went with the nurses to the O.R.
 Not sure about this bracelet...
 Our hearts either melted or broke as we saw our sad and tired girl. Thankfully we had just heard the good news that everything had gone really well. Our grateful joy overshadowed any sorrow. She was crying for Mommy as we came into the recovery room. A few minutes of Mommy and Daddy time helped her settle. She was even able to relax enough to go potty in the potty chair. That helped her feel much better. Poor little thing.
After about an hour in recovery and 3 hours of strict bed rest with no movement, Mommy was super happy to be able to climb in bed with Elin once we got upstairs. She finally felt like she could connect with and soothe her hurting baby the way she wanted to.
 Elin wasn't to keen on the bright light of the camera flash.
 
A couple of pictures was enough for her.
  
She eventually got back to sleep and had a deep, peaceful rest. Once she peeked out of the corner of one eye to see if mommy was still there. A quiet "yep" to Mommy's "I'm still here", a touch of Mommy's face, and she was right back out with a contented grin.
The IV and monitors made the hospital visit seem even more dramatic. They eventually started driving her a little "batty". She thought the light on the her thumb monitor meant her thumb was "broken". When we unplugged it to take her potty, when she was allowed, she would tell Mommy, "all better".


 The Santes gave her a fun package. She loved opening it in the evening.
 There were lots of fun goodies.
 And some homemade cards from her cousins.
                         a diaper for puppy...
 Daddy and Elin time...
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 She had a few fun phone conversations that night. These were the best kind of visits for a little girl who wasn't aloud to get too excited. The first was with her sisters and Auntie Jenny.   She has some big sisters anxious to see her tomorrow. Especially the biggest.
 Then, not too long before bed she capped off the night with this fun chat with Grampie and Grammie Skaling. 
The chats were a blessing for everyone! You could hear the joy in everyone's voices as they talked with her.She is one well loved little girl.

Our love for our little girls fills our hearts with gratitude and wonder at the goodness of our Saviour Jesus Christ. A friend recently said something profound that has settled deeper in our hearts over these past few days. The miracle of life is seen in different ways. The miracle of the sick child healed by God through the care of an earthly physician or supernaturally by the Great Physician, the miracle of a healthy little life, and the miracle of life at all with all the possible things that can go wrong. Can we ever doubt the goodness of God when we witness the beauty and wonder of life itself, whether it is whole or broken, enjoyed for a century or only in the womb. The beauty contained in all of life magnifies the God who is the giver of it all.  
For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother’s womb. I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well. My frame was not hidden from You, When I was made in secret, And skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, The days fashioned for me, When as yet there were none of them. Psalm 139:13-16